Child contact and custody rights:
Being a good father in spite of separation
What can I do for you as an expert for good separations?
Typical statements from clients – sound familiar?
Not being part of the daily life of my children any more is very painful; I can only see my children after draining discussions with my former partner; I sometimes feel sad and helpless because of all of the stress involved.
I can help you get to grips with your emotional cocktail of sadness, anger and helplessness. So that you can obtain the clarity and peace of mind you need to be able to actively improve your situation. And regain the strength you need to enjoy the precious moments you have with your children. Please bear in mind: You will always stay their father no matter what happens.
Let’s discover good new ways to
maintain and improve a good relationship with your children; find new strength and hope; reduce the communication stress with your ex-partner.
Typical statements from clients – sound familiar?
I feel guilty because I'm no longer there to help and protect my children; I spoil them too much so as to feel less guilty; I don’t start discussions about their education to avoid fights with my ex-partner.
As a family counselor I feel for you and know that your present situation is a very stressful one. I am familiar with the insecurities caused by separations which raise a lot of questions and will be happy to help you find good answers.
Let’s discover good new ways to
analyse your situation; clear up your conflicting feelings; develop strategies for the challenges ahead; overcome your feelings guilt in the process.
Typical statements from clients – sound familiar?
My ex wants to get as much money as possible; she doesn't seem to care that I have rights as a father; I'm angry and disappointed that all I am supposed to do is to pay for everything.
Justified feelings of anger, frustration and disappointment come together in a difficult mixture which can turn communication with your ex into a constant challenge. I will be happy to help you improve your situation by helping you to find new strategies and solutions.
Let’s discover good new ways to
successfully communicate with your ex-partner; learn new ways of getting across your present financial situation; stay in control of your emotions so as to avoid difficulties with visiting rights.
Ready for the first step? You can reach me here
Typical statements from clients – sound familiar?
Communication with my ex-partner is extremely difficult; conversations keep escalating; old wounds are often torn open and I feel helpless.
A separation always goes hand in hand with psychological stress and pain. Someone who was once very close to us is no longer our partner. This is a hurtful thing and can make you feel sad and angry. This emotional cocktail is highly explosive and needs to be defused. I am there to support and help you find ways to reduce the stress involved. But also to help you approach your ex-partner with a new sense of clarity and purpose. Which will help you, your ex-partner and above all your children.
Let’s discover good new ways to
get to a less stressful communication with your ex; improve your relationship with your children; create a new path to a more relaxed and uncomplicated relationship for all of you.
Ready for the first step? You can reach me here
Typical statements from clients – sound familiar?
The relationship between my new partner and my children is very strained; I feel torn between wanting to spend as much time as possible with my children but also with my new partner; I feel I need to put an end to this stressful situation.
The good news: you've found a new love who wants to spend as much time as possible with you. Of course this relationship plays an important role in your life. But that doesn't change the fact that your time and attention also belongs to your children whom you love as well. I am happy to help you find the right words to communicate this successfully to your new partner. Let us untangle your current situation and the relationships involved, take a good look at your present schedule and find new solutions.
Let’s discover good new ways to
get a tense situation under control; help you relax again; enjoy the fact that you are loved by your children and your present partner; actively reduce the pressure by communicating successfully and planning ahead.
Unable to find your topic? Then please write me an email and I will be happy to get back to you with a first response free of charge.
About me
Unfortunately, a father’s feelings in the course of a separation are still often not taken seriously. It is understandable that children are more likely to live with their mother. However, this can lead to a lot of suffering on the side of the fathers, especially when the relationship with the ex-partner is strained.
This can have lifelong consequences for the children. I actively support fathers in coping with their demanding situation by using my know-how as a family counselor and mediator to help them.
You can find further information about me and my background here.
Everything starts with a conversation. Find clarity for shaping your role as a father despite the separation. The preliminary conversation is free of charge and you can end your coaching whenever you are ready to. Get in touch today:
